I had no idea that you could be traumatised by birth or the events around it.
I had no idea I was a perfect fit for the symptoms of PTSD until two years of trying (and only partially succeeding) to piece my life back together.
It was only by chance, and thanks to a feature on Radio 4’s Woman’s Hour, that I began to make sense of my experiences. My privilege meant I could ask for help to pay for the therapy I needed.
Read MoreChange is in the air at Make Birth Better, and as we welcome an exciting new chapter, we want to take a moment to thank our outgoing CEO, Nikki Wilson, for her incredible dedication and impact over the last five years. Her legacy will continue to inspire the work we do.
Read MoreThis year’s theme is Midwives: Critical in Every Crisis. This resonates deeply with our Make Birth Better Champions, many of whom have been cared for by midwives during their own transformative and traumatic birth experiences. Some are midwives themselves. All are united in their belief: that compassionate, skilled midwifery care can change – and even save lives.
Read MoreSophie is a qualified midwife who has worked in an NHS trust for seven and a half years. Here, she shines a light on the problematic approach to trauma within healthcare, which has impacted her own decision not to have children.
Read MoreWhile advances in medical care have improved safety and surgical techniques, many parents still experience trauma surrounding their caesarean birth. Midwife Victoria Holyoak, Founder of C-Section UK, shines a light on what work can be done to ensure better emotional, psychological, and physical care for c-section parents.
Read MoreLaura Spence is a midwife, Founder of NeuroNatal and has a Masters in Perinatal Mental Health. Through her MSc research, she explored the postnatal experiences of women with ADHD and uncovered significant gaps in perinatal healthcare that leave neurodivergent parents feeling overwhelmed, isolated, and unsupported. Laura covers the different challenges these parents face and how postnatal care needs to adapt to make neurodivergent parents feel better supported.
Read MoreOver the past 15 years, midwife Dalvir has had the privilege of working with countless families through one of the most transformative moments of their lives. These days, her focus is a little different but no less rewarding. She spends her time working to make maternity services more inclusive for everyone who needs them. Read her three tips.
Read MoreAfter the birth of her third child, Emma Davies found herself reflecting on how we frame traumatic experiences and whether we can sometimes impose this view at all costs without listening to lived experiences.
Read MoreMeet Wieke Vink, Make Birth Better Champion & Mentoring Programme Manager at Routes, an organisation that supports refugees and asylum seekers through mentorship and creative programmes.
Read MoreGemma pens down her harrowing journey with the birth of her eleventh baby as her mother’s intuition kicks in, despite her concerns being dismissed by professionals. “The ignorance and dismissive behaviour of some staff members have a lasting effect.”
Read MoreCharlotte Mindel is a mother and somatic therapist supporting mums through pregnancy and motherhood, with a focus on de-shaming anger and building capacity for joy in motherhood. She shares her thoughts on how healing from a challenging or shocking birth is so much more than the event itself.
Read MoreDeborah is a British Sign Language (BSL) Interpreter who supported Alex Smith’s (AIMS) talk ‘Signs that you want to help: deafness and birth trauma’ at the Annual Birth Trauma Summit this year. Deborah writes about how she became a BSL interpreter and shares what it means to play such an intimate part in both joyful and devastating moments.
Read MoreA third of births in England are induced. The rate of induction is up by 10% in the last decade. At Make Birth Better, we have several concerns about the increase in the number of people being induced. Here’s four reasons why and some recommendations to help you make a decision around induction.
Read MoreChrissy Brown had a wonderful first pregnancy but after giving birth, things began to change and Chrissy experienced symptoms of anxiety for the first time. After a GP visit, Chrissy was underwhelmed with the lack of support offered and took matters into her own hands, and started the Motivational Mums Club. In this blog, Chrissy shares her story with us as well as her tips for other women and birthing people experiencing mental health struggles
Read MoreClare Marie’s first pregnancy was as smooth as can be, but her birth story was different. She shares about how her mental health struggles post-birth eventually led her to train other women to become wellness professionals and widen the network of support available to new mums.
Read MoreOur involvement in the BESt-UK study means we are calling for people to share their birth experiences again. We understand this may not feel timely for some people who are already feeling fatigued or harmed by the Public Inquiry. We also know you might have questions.
Read MoreWe need your help please. All women and birthing people who have given birth in the last five years - we urge you to consider completing the BESt-UK survey about your birth experience. We urgently need more up-to-date robust data on the prevelance of birth trauma and obsetric violence in the UK.
Boitumelo Dibakoane hid her pregnancy until two weeks after her son was born. Here, she discusses movingly how the search for a name for her baby eventually led to self-acceptance and strengthened the motherhood bond.
Read MoreIt’s been a big week for birth trauma. And we hear you when you say it’s felt hard going. Our supporters have shared so many contrasting emotions in light of the APPG report on the Public Inquiry and we hope to capture you all as we share our reflections today.
Read MoreGoing back to work after having a baby is not an easy transition in any circumstances. As a new parent, you may love your job but still feel overwhelmed and anxious about your return. To set you off on a good start,here, are four recommended steps you can take to put your return on a much more thoughtful, mindful and calm trajectory.
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